The Effective Comunication

Importance of Effective Communication
by Barbara Stennes
Effective communication is crucial at every level of an organization. However, the ability to communicate effectivelydoes not come easily to many people, and it is a skill that requires practice.
To effectively communicate a complex idea, however, requires skills beyond elementary conversation.There are two golden rules to remember and follow.
Golden Rule #1: Organize thoughts in your mind before sharing them with others.
One idea often prompts a torrent of others. Inorder to share your ideas, you must first shape them coherently. Organization is important, because it creates a pattern for your listener, allowing him or her to grasp the largerpicture intuitively. This allows the listener to focus on the details of your message, without struggling to understand how you went from Point A to Point B.
Golden Rule #2:Communication is collaborative, not competitive.
Thrusting your idea on others mars the beauty and integrity of conversation. Communication is in some ways like a dance; each partnerplays off the other, basing his or her steps on the other personfs, while simultaneously maintaining a certain amount of individuality.
Communication is a two-way process involvingan exchange of ideas. If you try to make it one-way, you prevent this exchange and will eventually frustrate the other person. You may also frustrate yourself, if you read theother personfs lack of verbosity as disinterest in the conversation, rather than an inability to get a word in.
The hallmark of effective communication is the coherent verbalprojection of your ideas, so that your listener receives the message that you intend to send. By observing these two rules, you will reduce miscommunication and misunderstandings.