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Mindset # 1: If She Doesn't Kiss You Back, It's No Big Deal

Attractive women are used to men of all shapes and sizes making physical passes at them.
They're used to letting men know they aren't interested. If you try to kiss a woman and she pushes you away, DON'T squawk like a b*itch or I'll conk you upside the head.

Women aren't going to view you as a grotesque piece of dog poo foracting like a man. In fact, they'll appreciate it.

You've got more to lose, my friend, from not kissing her. Attractive women know when men want to kiss them but feel scared. This turns women off - big time.

My advice: If you want to kiss a woman but feel scared, lean over and kiss her - ASAP.
You're better off.

Mindset # 2: You've Gotta Believe She Wants To Kiss You

If you've read mybook you're aware that what you put out into the universe is what you'll get back. You know: What the thinker thinks, the prover proves. This couldn't apply more to kissing women.

Believing a woman wants to kiss YOU is a surefire way to skyrocket the probability that she'll return your kiss. Women are experts at figuring out just how confident (or insecure) a man is.

Desire in the absenceof the belief that a woman wants you is neediness. Women feel no attraction toward needy men. When you lean in to kiss a woman while believing she doesn't want to kiss you back, you're setting yourself up for rejection
Mindset # 3: Develop A Willingness To Push Your Comfort Level

Maybe you've studied a library full of books on body language, memorizing all of the signs indicating that womenfeel attraction toward a man.

But perhaps when women display these attraction signals you don't feel, in your heart of hearts, they're attracted to you. I dunno?
This used to describe me to a tee.

What I've discovered is that when women display these attraction signals it's imperative to push your comfort level by going in for the kiss, even if you hear your gut reaction shouting, "Shefeels no attraction for YOU!" When you, for example, read or hear about these attraction signals, it becomes a possibility in your mind that when women display these signals, they feel attraction toward YOU.

But when a woman displays the attraction signals and YOU get up the gall to kiss her and she kisses you back, something magical happens...

It Becomes Your Reality That When Women DisplayThese Signals, They Feel Attraction Toward You.

Your belief transforms from mere possibility into your full fledged reality. Now for the main course: Swinggcat's Method For Kissing Women... Without Rejection.

Has a woman ever displayed attraction signals toward you - twirling her hair, touching you, giggling like a four year old child, giving you that "F me now you big boy" look... and soon - yet when you dove in for the kiss, to the horror of your self-esteem, she pushed you away?

If this hasn't happened to you, I'm willing to bet at some point during your life it will.
Even when a woman pushes you away, there's still a good possibility she feels attraction toward you.
"Then why would she push me away?" you might be asking yourself.

Because, my friend, she wasplaying a special type of attraction game (or a mating ritual) with You. Socially and sexually adept women intuitively grasp the rules of this game. This game is a form of what I call "Push-Pull."

Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in.

Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.

Imagine, to get a feel for this, ateacher who's critical toward one of his students. Once in a blue moon, however, he feeds them a sliver of praise. The student feels elated. But if he praises the student constantly, the emotional impact will lessen because...

He Will Not Be Creating The Needed Emotional Space.

Women understand this because this is how they get aroused.

When a man, for example, does something to...