Di Carlo Escalation Ladder

The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is a step-by step formula, followed
by a number of laws which govern it's use for maximum effect.
It is designed to provide a smooth escalation, containing no significant
jumps that may cause a woman to object. At the same time, the DEL
contains no extraneous steps which are non-essential to the seduction
process. This results in a FAST escalation sequence whichis compatible
with a variety of verbal structures, and has been field tested and perfected
by myself, Vincent DiCarlo, in hundreds of trials.
Without further marketing, hype or other bullshit, I present... the Di-
Carlo Escalation Ladder!
1. Eye Contact and Initial Conversation
Eye contact is the first step. It's use shows social awareness and always
improves your chances of starting aconversation. Start your conversational
game shortly after eye contact.
2. Incidental Class 1
The first class of incidental kino involves the arms and hands. Shaking
hands, tapping people on the shoulder and brushing arms are all very
common things that we do on a daily basis. Done in an incidental manner,
i.e. occurring merely by chance or without intention or calculation, it is extremelyeffective at building initial comfort.
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Incidental Class 1 Examples:
• Hand shaking
• Arm brushing
• Light touching on her arm to emphasize your points
• Anchoring her arm near elbow to hold her close as you talk
• Standing next to her with your arm touching hers
• High Fives
• Palm Reading
3. Overt Class 1
There is an unmistakablerecurring pattern throughout the DEL: incidental
kino, followed by overt kino. Overt means open to view or knowledge;
not concealed or secret.
While incidental kino is usually done in a context which masks your
intention, overt kino is not. The incidental kino which precedes it creates
the familiarity necessary for the overt kino to be accepted.
Overt Class 1 Examples:
• Holding hands
• Arm inarm escorting
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4. Incidental Class 2
Class 2 kino involves any contact which takes place on her torso or
legs. This is slightly more intimate than class 1, but does not include erogenous
zones such as her breasts, crotch or inner thighs. Those areas are not
paid any direct attention until the escalation ramp - to be defined later.Incidental Class 2 Examples:
• Standing very close with your legs touching hers
• Sitting close together with your legs touching hers
• Lightly and incidentally brushing her abdomen with your hands
while talking
• Briefly touching her back with your palm while speaking as if you are
pulling her in to hear you better
5. Overt Class 2
Overt class 2 kino is usually done while sitting down. It's notnecessary,
but definitely a smart place to make the transition to sitting down.
This class of kino should be done in a protective, almost romantic manner.
Overt Class 2 Examples:
• Frontal Hugging (done best as a positive reaction to her compliance)
• Escorting her through the bar with your hand on her lower back
• Sitting next to her and placing her leg over yours
• Holding her abdomen onthe side while sitting down and talking
• Placing her hand on your thigh
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6. Incidental Class 3
Her hair, face and neck are the regions included in class 3. Many
guys make the common mistake of touching these areas too soon, with a
girl they first met.
Girls are surprisingly protective of their hair, face and neck placing
theserelatively high on the ladder. Another common mistake is that more
experienced guys will generally skip this step altogether, only to face last
minute resistance later on.
Incidental Class 3 Examples:
• Brushing (or pretending to brush) something off of her face
• Talking very closely with your face touching hers because the environment
is extremely loud
• Touching an interesting necklace she's...