Wesley Centeno SH: 10-1
The conflictual relations relatives not healed, can be harmful for a person roup and more importantly, this will allow the repetition of conflictive behaviors with futurecouples and with their own children. This can create roots of bitterness that, as said the Word, still affect those who are around. Perhaps the idea is that one will do everything the opposite of what Idid so but most of the times is not as well. And we fall into the same mistakes or even worst. Because to do that you should always bear in mind what "they made me" in order to do the opposite, thatis, one is never free to choose, only opt for the contrary that it is not always the best. So I wanted to bring this topic that is the rejection and how family can affect us in the future.
Understandhow many problems we cannot solve, originate in the first years of life within the family. Does not mean justify because abusive situations will remain although they must be forgiven. Does not meanentering into the opposition of victims and victimizers. Our parents are responsible as parents, but also the product of their own life experiences. Nobody can give more than what he has received, exceptthat he was healed. There is a need to deal with the grief of the parents that we didn't have and accept that we had. That does not mean accepting all their actions as correct. Is not to deny ourresponsibility. Many experiences we have been conditioned, but we are also responsible for making decisions or we were pumped to our suffering that can be very justified or we chose heal us to live a freelife.
The rejection is very painful and which i lived, especially when it is of your own father. The rejection means that we need love and affection. This can cause negative thoughts and feelings,both on one same. All real rejection or ever harbored is destructive. It has been damaged both the capacity to give and receive love. It is important consider that sometimes parents give love but us...
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