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Control the Conversation,
Command Attention, and
Convey the Right Message—
Without Saying a Word
Mark Bowden
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Contents
Preface
vii
Acknowledgments
Introduction
ix
xi
1Communication Is More than Words
2
What We Have Here Is a Failure to Communicate
19
3
Winning Trust with a Wave of Your Hand
39
4
Inspirational Influence out of Thin Air
59
5
Injecting Excitement into Your Gestures
79
6
Faces Tell the Whole Story
95
7
From Complex to Clear Body Language
115
8
Directing the Pull of Your Presence
125
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