How do we built our personality?

Michelle Ramirez Cortés 609
How do we build our personality?
Our personality defines who we are; we are unique because of our personality thatincludes everything about us, since our physical appearance up to our deepest secrets. We build our personality since we are born, there are different experiences that may change us just a little ormake in us a very big transformation. It doesn´t matter if we have an exact clone because he won´t have our personality, he may have our exact same DNA, but he won´t think like us, he is a differentorganism. According to Charles Northrup, we have to have an inner charm or charisma in order to have a vibrant personality. Maybe the world requires that a certain amount of people with a brilliantcharisma, but what if a person does not have it? What I mean here is that we can´t judge a person for that, that is totally subjective. We can´t say without any doubt that a person does have a charismabecause that is not tangible, we can´t express it physiologically, and a person may develop it, it is nothing that we are born with, however it is the talent that makes people love you. He also saysthat sometimes personality is more important that physical beauty which I totally agree with that, because not because someone is not pretty, is not important. He also says that there are 10requirements to have a good personality; kindness, cleanness of mind and body, unselfishness, good disposition, obedience to ideals and principles, honesty, truthfulness, loyalty, spirituality and good health.And actually I do agree with these characteristics because if you lack of these characteristics, you may have magnetism with people, but while the time passes they will notice that you are not as goodas they thought.
What I noticed about Charles’s opinion is that he says that personality is like an electric atom that needs to be charged by inner faith or spirituality. Not so many authors think...