Teenager´S Problems

The reason why I want to talk about teenager´s problems was not to hear even a word from them, they don´t use language to communicate, they just use hits, drugs and alcohol.

These actions are caused by many factors, such as divorced parents , attention problems, low self-esteem , familiar problems or depression.



My main idea is to know more about teenagers’ stage and why is important tohave a good communication with your family to prevent problems such as solitude which is the main factor adolescents lose the sense of life.

We have to know all these things to have the right of judge them or punish them. This stage of life is difficult because you are learning to build your own life and your character without anyone´s help and there´s many people who can interrupt the longway or confuse you about what is good for you or bad.

People think teenagers have problems because their body and mind are in constant change, in some part is true but not in all senses. The real problems teenagers face are addictions, bad influences ( friends, school,etc), parents ( lack of attention, divorced).











Adolescence is a difficult stage of life

It is the stagein which you build your character alone, but many people can confuse you and make you take the wrong way.

It is a long way you have to walk to reach your goal, to know who are you and what you want to be. It ´s the phase where you want to know the answers of every single question, of every detail you see. Parents help a lot in the construction of your beliefs, we learn from them, every mistakeor every success.

They are emphasizing our falls, but they help us to get up without waiting for anything in exchange.

In the way you´ll find people who want to help you reach the goal, with good advice or good actions that some day you´ll return the favor.

But you can also find bad people, that use a costume of ‘’friends’’ and want to make your way even longer with bad advice, badcompanies and wrong thoughts about life. There will be two ways, link with them and let them take your life, and change your character or follow your way and remember the people who really care about you.

And when you see back and watch the long way you already walk you ‘ll think :

''It keeps us from weakening. It gives us the courage to continue to take a stand and stick to it.''

(FrancesMollin of Glen Cove www.bbc.co.uk/parenting/your_kids/teen_problems.shtml)

That means the love and comprehension of the people that really cared about you helped and kept you from bad ‘’friends’’.

And your family and values gives you the courage to keep forward in your life.



Teenagers´ problems aren´t in vain.

We just judge teenagers by their actions and behaviors, but we don´t lookback and see why are they doing this

Sometimes we just judge people without knowing their causes and that´s what happened with teenagers.

There are three types of problems : Internal (yourself) Parental (with your parents) and Social (friends, community, school)

Internal : When have doubts of yourself, like low self-esteem , your character.

Low self-esteem: One of the biggest worriesfor adolescents is their appearance. Everyone has the role to be like a top model: skinny, beautiful face and tall. The problem is worse in girls, because they feel the pressure to be perfect to like guys.

The problem is not always physical . They feel bad if they are not accepted in a specific social group, just because they have glasses, they have good grades or dress in some way the othersdon´t.

It causes that teenagers change their personality just to be like the others.

Parental: The worst problem is when parents are divorced and they are having a bad relation in front of their children, which causes depression because they feel alone.

A good solution is to have a good communication with their sons and daughters in order to explain them the causes of their divorce and...