Bullying

What is bullying
The term is a word that comes from the Dutch word meaning harassment. The bullyng is any form of psychological abuse, verbal or physical occurred between school repeatedly over a given time.
Statistically, the dominant type of violence is the emotional and mostly occurs in the classroom and the school yard. The protagonists of cases of bullying are often children in the processof entry into adolescence (12-13 years).
Bullies can be boys or girls, although the trend is more pronounced in men.
TYPES OF BULLYING
Sex: It's when there is a siege, induction or sexual abuse.
Social exclusion: When ignored, isolated and excludes the other.
Verbal: Insults and slurs in public to embarrass the weak.
Psychological: In this case there is persecution, intimidation, tyranny,blackmail, manipulation and other threats.
Physical: There hitting, pushing or beating the beleaguered organization.
Ciberbullyng: For generations the blows, marzipan, taunts and intimidation have been practiced in schools, but the new method is the ciberbullyng ie harassment over the Internet specifically on websites, blogs or emails.
CAUSES OF BULLYING
Personal: A child who acts aggressivelysuffer intimidation or any kind of abuse at school or in the family.
Acquire this behavior when adults often humiliated.
Feels superior, either because it has the support of other attackers or because the child is beset with very little ability to respond to attacks.
Family: The child may have aggressive attitudes as a way to express their feelings to a familiar little emotional, there aresituations where the absence of a parent, divorce, violence, abuse or humiliation exerted by parents and older siblings, perhaps because it is possibly a child who lives under constant pressure to succeed in their activities or otherwise is a very spoiled child.
Media
Children are much given to watching the action and violence, and even if they believe they too influence their behavior.
Impact
Forthe aggressor may later become criminals, the person is frustrated because he has difficulty living with other children, believes that any effort you make is worth to create positive relationships with peers.
To the victim: Obvious low self esteem, passive attitudes, loss of interest in studies which may lead to a failing in school, emotional disorders, psychosomatic problems, depression,anxiety, suicidal thoughts, unfortunately some guys, not having to endure more this situation take their own lives.
Response of the aggressor:
Those who engage in bullying does to impose their power over the other thus making it under their complete control over months or even years.
The child or several, usually in groups, constantly threatening and aggressive attitudes have no reason against one ormore other children.
Is or are provocative, anything is for them because of teasing and resolve their conflicts is through aggression.
It is not empathetic, ie not put in the place of another.
Behaves as Victim:
Children are often shy and unsociable. Faced constant harassment, logically feel anxious, tense and very scared to the point that in some cases can lead to devastating consequences.The child or adolescent is aggressive with their parents or teachers.
They begin to make excuses and various arguments for not attending classes or participate in school activiadades and has a low school performance.
The victim begins to lose material goods without justification, or ask for more money to cover the aggressor blackmail.
In the most severe cases have obvious bruises or assaults onthe face and body.
As parents must act before a child stalker:
You and you approach your child, talk to him.
Interact more with your child's friends and see what activities do.
Once you find yourself creating a climate of trust and communication with your child, ask the reason for his behavior.
If You checked your child is a bully, do not ignore the situation will worsen because surely,...