Tips For Couple

TIPS FOR COUPLES

Tips on Marriage and Couples Relationships

Expressing Admiration

We all need to feel admired. When our partners tell us they think we are special then we feel secure andloved. This is a good feeling. If you do this for your partner then you are taking a huge step towards helping the relationship become what you really want it to be. What I observe is that if one partnerstarts doing this it becomes part of what happens between the two of you. Then you have developed a healthy way of being together.


One way of expressing admiration is by thanking the otherperson for what they have done during the day. It could be laundry, cooking, cleaning, providing, parenting and many others. It’s noticing and commenting on the positives about the other person such aswhat they are wearing, how they look or if they accomplished something then they know you do admire and appreciate them. Expressing admiration is letting your partner know you value that they are around.This could happen wherever you are. When you are having a meal together you can let your spouse know that “it’s nice to be together right now with you.” You can even look at them with admiration.When you show admiration to your partner you are building a foundation of good feelings between the two of you.

Doing Service

Showing your spouse how you feel can be done through doing thingsfor them. Taking the kids for an activity to allow your partner to have some space is a very loving activity. Cleaning the house or doing the dishes can give your spouse a very caring and connectingmessage.

I’ve seen in many couples how the lack of doing things for each other causes insecurity. It seems as though the other person doesn’t care when they don’t do things that makes life easier fortheir mate. As a result the stress level increases. When one partner of the couple starts to show their loving feelings for the other person by doing things for that person it opens the door for...