General Characteristics (gray table)
Aspiration + excitability + need of change
You aretrying to break away from the situation, which you see as a paralyzing infringement, in order to break free from everything unnecessary and experience a strong excitement, no longer restrainingyourself.
Your Desired Objective
Pursues his objectives with intensity and does not allow himself to be deflected from his purpose. Wants to overcome the obstacles with which he is faced and to achievespecial recognition and standing from his success.
Needs peace and quiet. Desires a close and faithful partner from whom to demand special consideration and unquestioningaffection. If these requirements are not met, is liable to turn away and withdraw altogether.
Your Restrained Characteristics
You are ready for emotional input into a relationship. You’re very squeamishbecause you are focusing your own sensitivity on your own feelings. You want to feel emotionally involved into contacts, as you feel heavy about your own isolation and loneliness. You are egocentric andquick to take offence, even though you always try to avoid open confrontations. You actively participate in emotionally colored events.
Your Stress Sources
The existing situation is disagreeable.Feels lonely and uncertain as he has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolationmagnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to his self-sufficiency because of the restraint he normally imposes on himself. Since he wants to demonstrate the unique quality of his owncharacter, he tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal his fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize his behavior with contempt....