I Can Only

"I can only"
From the moment a child is born, parents create a bond of protection for him, avoiding anything that might cause harm, such as making sure the bottle is not too hot or too cold. They decide on everything, such as food, clothing and toys. Until such time as gestures or the word "no" appears in his vocabulary, and begins to decide he wants and no, is the power to elect and be enactedin stages until adulthood.
When a year old, he is waking up and is too curious about everything around them, he want to try to do all the things he sees, without measuring consequences he is only thinking of what he want The child observes that when his parents are eating everyone doing alone, but he is relishing the breast it asks want to, but the mother is afraid that will injure him or hisclothes and the phrase in which we see making independence of the child "I can achieve." This phrase, for most parents, is a bit hard to take because they feel and see how he is learning new skills and becoming less dependent on them. When parents do not forbid or allow something, it reaches the "tantrum" which the child uses as a means to get what he wants.
Grows mentally and physically in asurprising way, knowing him, his tastes as he wants to eat, as his dress or comb, he learning that things he can to do alone and not yet, and often forget the recommendations or rules that his parents give him. These first steps take place much more when he begins the school; he sees his partners and he want that what they have.
Parents have a duty to let you know that is good and what is not, butoften take this task very seriously making the children feel very guarded and this leads to them not to develop some power every day decision making unsure of themselves, for this reason it is good to have limits, not as flexible or overprotective, because the only child will be harmed.

Many years later comes a difficult time for everyone as is adolescence, parents want their children to have agood future, so try to build a life where you feel compelled to continue, but this can become later a serious problem for this reason the father should guide letting it take its own decisions about their lives. The young man begins to experience physical and mental changes and over time this can go on watching. The young man every day is getting new experiences and ways to handle certain problems,this is primarily a figure to admire that follow, learning how that person solves certain difficult situations of life and then implement them in his life. To avoid differences between parents and children must also maintain a good communication, not letting it float in space alone, he need to know what has the unconditional support of their parents; otherwise this may lead to psychologicalproblems in young people to carry outputs as are alcohol, drugs, or something that would lead to a downfall. The father's role is to let the young take their decisions setting limits and sometimes intervening as appropriate to prevent him choose something that does not suit you. When the young man does not feel the company of their parents look to others who can lead him astray and lead to many problems.By nature the young man away every day is more than his father, seeking to create his own live, he feels like it is leaving all these games to as a child, thus taking more mature and ready for life as an adult, where it comes from parents and enters society groups which include people who are going through the same stage. friends are essential at this stage, you want to enjoy as long as possiblewith them at parties, movies, and other activities, but when a parent is engaged in any friendship, it is safest to ban this person, so if the young do not see what the father wants to teach, he will try to be in secret, want to feel their own independence but if you get to know a proper way to handle this can cost up to one's life for things that suddenly did not understand her parents wanted...