How divorce affects on children
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Publicado: 1 de junio de 2010
Fernández
Arely Fernández
Mrs. Jessica
English
2 march 2010
How divorce affects children?
Thesis: Divorce have a lot of consequences: in their behavior, their personality, and mentality
I. How this affects in their behavior
A. social behavior
B. with their family
II. How this affects in their emotions
A. Emotional security
B.Self esteem
III. How this changes their mentality
A. How do they will think about start a serious relationship later.
B. They think they are the cause of the divorce.
How divorce affects on children?
Divorce is a horrible thing for a child , is like their world broken in parts. Mothers and fathers are important resources for their children. They give love,provide emotional support and teach their children skills and knowledge about life. The break up of the family unit through divorce can be a heart wrenching experience for children. Divorce can adversely affect a child, from their behavior, their personality, and mentally. When the parents take the decision of divorce, I think that they already have thought in the hurt that they cause in their children,in case that they have children.
The parents think that a divorce is only a thing of them, and this is a big mistake because they are hurting their children, they have to think in the hurt they cause. Sometimes with the divorce they make the children think that they are the cause of the divorce and later they will be like thinking that because of them their parents are not together and theyfeel culprits.
As we see divorce is a big decision that some parents take and with this they cause a lot of effects in their children: in their behavior, their personality, and mentality; that we will see here.
How this affects in their behavior?
Divorce cause a lot of effects in a child, one of them is in their behavior. With the divorce the child start to change his/her behavior theystart behaving different, sometimes they became violent, or in other cases they star to behave shy, fearfully. Children react differently yet similarly in divorce. Some will be extremely sad and show signs of depression and even sleeplessness. Anxiety levels peak as they feel they are going to be abandoned. They experience feelings of loneliness due to the loss of the other parent. Differentchildren go through it at different levels and different times.
Like we see the divorce affects a not have their lot in a child, they also have problems to socialize with others, and they change with their family and obviously with their parents.
A. Social behavior
Divorce affects a lot in their social behave, in the most of the cases they have low self esteem, this makes the child tothink that they are less than the others. They also became anger and violent and this affects in the children a lot ; anger affects because they always be anxious of something else and when they are with other people the other people will see them like rare or strange; and violent because this provokes fear in the other people.
This also affects in their security; they have fear of all , theydo not have security in theirselves , they think that all the people will separate of them, they think that now they do not have anything sure.
B. Behavior with their whole family.
Divorce affects a lot in their family, sometimes, they take a lot of annoyance with their all family, because they feel like they are lonely and this is also provoked by the fear of being alone, because theythink that their other family will make them alone, they think that a day, they will separate of them like their parents do.
How this affects in their emotions?
A) Emotional security
When their parents divorce they think that they will be alone because now they are apart, and they will go by their own way. The absence of one of their parents make them feel lonely, and when is...
Arely Fernández
Mrs. Jessica
English
2 march 2010
How divorce affects children?
Thesis: Divorce have a lot of consequences: in their behavior, their personality, and mentality
I. How this affects in their behavior
A. social behavior
B. with their family
II. How this affects in their emotions
A. Emotional security
B.Self esteem
III. How this changes their mentality
A. How do they will think about start a serious relationship later.
B. They think they are the cause of the divorce.
How divorce affects on children?
Divorce is a horrible thing for a child , is like their world broken in parts. Mothers and fathers are important resources for their children. They give love,provide emotional support and teach their children skills and knowledge about life. The break up of the family unit through divorce can be a heart wrenching experience for children. Divorce can adversely affect a child, from their behavior, their personality, and mentally. When the parents take the decision of divorce, I think that they already have thought in the hurt that they cause in their children,in case that they have children.
The parents think that a divorce is only a thing of them, and this is a big mistake because they are hurting their children, they have to think in the hurt they cause. Sometimes with the divorce they make the children think that they are the cause of the divorce and later they will be like thinking that because of them their parents are not together and theyfeel culprits.
As we see divorce is a big decision that some parents take and with this they cause a lot of effects in their children: in their behavior, their personality, and mentality; that we will see here.
How this affects in their behavior?
Divorce cause a lot of effects in a child, one of them is in their behavior. With the divorce the child start to change his/her behavior theystart behaving different, sometimes they became violent, or in other cases they star to behave shy, fearfully. Children react differently yet similarly in divorce. Some will be extremely sad and show signs of depression and even sleeplessness. Anxiety levels peak as they feel they are going to be abandoned. They experience feelings of loneliness due to the loss of the other parent. Differentchildren go through it at different levels and different times.
Like we see the divorce affects a not have their lot in a child, they also have problems to socialize with others, and they change with their family and obviously with their parents.
A. Social behavior
Divorce affects a lot in their social behave, in the most of the cases they have low self esteem, this makes the child tothink that they are less than the others. They also became anger and violent and this affects in the children a lot ; anger affects because they always be anxious of something else and when they are with other people the other people will see them like rare or strange; and violent because this provokes fear in the other people.
This also affects in their security; they have fear of all , theydo not have security in theirselves , they think that all the people will separate of them, they think that now they do not have anything sure.
B. Behavior with their whole family.
Divorce affects a lot in their family, sometimes, they take a lot of annoyance with their all family, because they feel like they are lonely and this is also provoked by the fear of being alone, because theythink that their other family will make them alone, they think that a day, they will separate of them like their parents do.
How this affects in their emotions?
A) Emotional security
When their parents divorce they think that they will be alone because now they are apart, and they will go by their own way. The absence of one of their parents make them feel lonely, and when is...
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