As part of the Hatarat Nedarim declaration, a person says that although Halacha requires a person to specify the particular vowswhich he wishes to annul, he is unable to do so because they are too numerous. The work Derech Ha’haim cites from the Shiboleh Ha’leket (Rav Sidkiya Ben Abraham, Italy, 1230-1300) that this specialprovision applies only to vows of which a person is unaware. One can earn annulment for these vows by informing the Bet Din that he cannot recall his vows. If, however, a person is aware of a certainvow or custom from which he wishes to absolve himself, then he must specify it when he makes the Hatarat Nedarim declaration.
Both men and women are required to make Hatarat Nedarim. Customarily,however, a husband represents his wife when he stands before the Bet Din for Hatarat Nedarim. In fact, the text that we use explicitly mentions that one seeks absolution of his own vows as well as thevows of his wife. Furthermore, women customarily attend the Kol Nidreh service on Yom Kippur, which is also effective in annulling one’s vows.
Hatarat Nedarim does not annul one’s vows if he doesnot understand the text he recites. Unfortunately, many people recite the Hebrew text without understanding what they say, mistakenly thinking that this is some form of ritual that they must performbefore the new year. A person who does not understand the Hebrew text must recite Hatarat Nedarim in a language he understands, for otherwise his declaration is meaningless.
The Hatarat Nedarim...