INTRO: A) Introductory statement (1p)
I haven’t met anybody that could honestly say that never had his heart broken. What is it about love that everybodypursuit? And why do we usually failed ?
Love is a decision not a feeling is not something that happens to you but something that you make happen to you and happen to othersthough We usually fall in love with the person's appearance.
1) Love is a decision not a feeling
Love is something that grows from your actions and decisions. Falling in loveand love are two different things. Falling in love is a rush of emotions the very first step in order to find true love.
"Love is misunderstood to be an emotion; it is a state ofawareness, a way of being in the world, a way of seeing oneself and others." -David R. Hawkins
2) Love is not something that happens to you but something that you make happen to yourself andhappen to others.
Love is probably the single most universally desired human quality that exists on this planet. Still most of people are still waiting for the one person that wouldfulfill their need to be love. The secret to love and to be love back start with you actually loving yourself first.
3) We usually fall in love with the person's appearance.
The way Hebehaves, the way He talks smile and walks. Sometimes we make our self believe ideal qualities about the one person we believe to love and the more we get to know him the less we fall forhim. That's when the feeling of love disappears even faster than it appeared.
Love is not just a feeling, it is definitely a decision. Every time we choose to hold back andnot show what we really feel. Because we feel scare we choose fear instead of love. May be if we were more willing to do things we usually don’t do we could see things we usually don’t see.